Mencarut: Adekah ia Cool?

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Masyarakat Melayu ialah satu masyarakat yg terkenal dgn sifat sopan santun dan begitu menjaga tata tertib mereka.. Bagi saya yg lahir dalam kalangan masyarakat melayu, membesar juga dalam masyarakat melayu, saya telah dididik dan diasuh dengan nilai2 murni yg ade pada kemelayuan itu sendiri..

hadehh... letih aku menulis ayat cenggini....

Straight to the point je la ek... Aku sebenarnye cukup xsuke dgn org yang suke mencarut ni.. Ape? Korg ingat kalau korg mencarut, korg cool ke? Owh.. same sekali tidak.. huhu... Lebih2 lagi kalau org tu ialah perempuan.. Bukannye aku nak mendiskriminasikan kaum wanita.. huhu.. same sekali tidak...  Bukannye aku nak kate laki je boleh mencarut... Tapi nak buat camne, dah memang laki macam tu.. huhu...

Pompuan kalau mencarut nampak tak manis la kan.... Kene ar jage tatatertib dan maruah diri sebagai pompuan.. Dah kalau perangai pun 2 kali 5 dgn laki, kuat mencarut, baik xyah jadi pompuan.. ceis~~ sejak bile aku terlalu feminin neh... hahahaha....

Mase kecik2 kan, kalau kite cakap kasar, mesti mak marah.. Mesti die cakap "ha.. cakap lagi skali aku cabai mulut tu kang!" atau pun "eh, ni mane blajo cakap macam ni ni? Tampo kang baru taw!!" tu kalau mak anda ialah seorg yg brutal... kalau mak anda ialah seorg yg islamik, mungkin die akan kate "ish.. kenape cakap camtu, tak baik, Allah marah.."

Mari kite pikir balik.. kenape mak kite perlu marah kite dgn begitu brutal skali... pikey jangan tak pikey.. huhu...sebabnye, mencarut tu ialah bende yg tak baik... Die tanak kite buat bende yg tak baik.. sebab tu la, dari kecik lagi die dah larang kite buat bende2 tu... Kalau mencarut tu bende yg biasa ataupun normal, buang air liur je la die dok marah2 kite... bukan ade pekdah pun... So, dah terang2 mencarut tu tak patut, tapi kenape mesti nak mencarut jugak? kenape?why? limaza?

Bile kite dah besar, mak bapak kite pun dah tak kisah sangat ape yang kite nak buat.. "lantak kome la situ, pande2 la kome pikey sendiri...". Time ni, kenapa kita tak apply balik ape yg mak bapak kite pernah ajar kite dulu? kenape? kenape? Kenape bile kite dah besar, kite dah berani mencarut? Sebab tak de sape nak larang? Mak bapak kite biarkan kita bebas, sebab diorg rase, ape yg diorg ajar kite mase kecik dulu tu, dah cukup dah... Tapi apa yg kita buat? Sila renungkan... Kita dah kecewakan mak bapak kite... Kita dah musnahkan kepercayaan diorg... Sape mak bapak kite pada kite bile kite dah besar? Nobody ke? Oooo... mak bapak ialah nobody, sebab tu la kite dah tak payah dgr cakap diorg dah.. Sekarang kite dah besar, kite dah boleh pilih cara hidup sendiri. Diorg xle nak masuk campur....

Huh!! Mungkin anda akan pikey.. "apehal hajar ni, isu kecik je pun.. rilek ar, tu pun sampai nak kait dgn mak bapak ke... uhuhu" Tapi bagi aku, its a big deal ok... aku tak suke dgr bahase kesat!!!!!!! Aku org melayu, aku org ISLAM... Agama aku dan bangsa aku tak ajar aku cakap benda2 tak baik atau biadap.......

Huhu.. sampai sini je la bebelan aku untuk anak sebangsa dan seagama aku... Kepada yg terasa tu, sile terasa...muahahaha.. Sape makan cili, die yg terase pedasnye....

Pesanan terakhir aku kepada yg suka mencarut/cakap kesat/ cakap kotor/ cakap kasar dan yg sewaktu dgnnye.... "ANDA LANGSUNG TIDAK COOL... OK!!

When you delay your Solah...

He remembered his grandmother's warning about praying on time. "My grandson, you shouldn't leave prayer to this late time". His grandmother' s age 70 but whenever she heard the Adhan, she got up like an arrow and performed Salah. He, however could never win over his ego to get up and pray. Whatever he did, his Salah was always the last to be offered prayed it quickly to get it in on time.

Thinking of this, he got up and realized that there were only 15 minutes left before Salat-ul Isha. He quickly made Wudhu and performed Salat-ul Maghrib. While making Tasbih, he again remembered his grandmother and was embarrassed by how he had prayed. His grandmother prayed with such tranquility and peace. He began making Dua and went down to make Sajdah and stayed like that for a while. He had been at school all day and was tired, so tired.



He awoke abruptly to the sound of noise and shouting. He was sweating profusely. He looked around. It was very crowded. Every direction he looked in was filled with people. Some stood frozen looking around, some were running left and right and some were on their knees with their heads in their hands just waiting. Pure fear and apprehension filled him as he realized where he was. His heart was about to burst.



It was the Day of Judgement. When he was alive, he had heard many things about the questioning on the Day of Judgement, but that seemed so long ago. Could this be something his mind made up? No, the wait and the fear were so great that he could not have imagined this. The interrogation was still going on. He began moving frantically from people to people to ask if his name had been called. No one could answer him. All of a sudden his name was called and the crowd split into two and made a passageway for him. Two people grabbed his arms and led him forward. He walked with unknowing eyes through the crowd. The angels brought him to the center and left him there.. His head was bent down and his whole life was passing in front of his eyes like a movie.



He opened his eyes but saw only another world. The people were all helping others. He saw his father running from one lecture to the other, spending his wealth in the way of Islam. His mother invited guests to their house and one table was being set while the other was being cleared. He pleaded his case, "I too was always on this path. I helped others. I spread the word of Allah. I performed my Salah. I fasted in the month of Ramadan. Whatever Allah ordered us to do, I did. Whatever he ordered us not to do, I did not." He began to cry and think about how much he loved Allah. He knew that whatever he had done in life would be less than what Allah deserved and his only protector was Allah. He was sweating like never before and was shaking all over. His eyes were fixed on the scale, waiting for the final decision.



At last, the decision was made. The two angels with sheets of paper in their hands, turned to the crowd. His legs felt like they were going to collapse. He closed his eyes as they began to read the names of those people who were to enter Jahannam. His name was read first. He fell on his knees and yelled that this couldn't be, "How could I go to Jahannam? I served others all my life, I spread the word of Allah to others".



His eyes had become blurry and he was shaking with sweat. The two angels took him by the arms. As his feet dragged, they went through the crowd and advanced toward the blazing flames of Jahannam. He was yelling and wondered if there was any person who was going to help him. He was yelling of all the good deeds he had done, how he had helped his father, his fasts, prayers, the Qur'an that he read, he was asking if none of them would help him. The Jahannam angels continued to drag him. They had gotten closer to the Hellfire. He looked back and these were his last pleas.



Had not Rasulullah [saw] said, "How clean would a person be who bathes in a river five times a day, so too does the Solah performed five times cleanse someone of their sins"? He began yelling, "My prayers?my prayers?my prayers." The two angels did not stop, and they came to the edge of the abyss of Jahannam. The flames of the fire were burning his face. He looked back one last time, but his eyes were dry of hope and he had nothing left in him. One of the angels pushed him in.



He found himself in the air and falling towards the flames. He had just fallen five or six feet when a hand grabbed him by the arm and pulled him back. He lifted his head and saw an old man with a long white beard. He wiped some dust off himself and asked him, "Who are you?" The old man replied, "I am your prayers". "Why are you so late! I was almost in the Fire! You rescued me at the last minute before I fell in". The old man smiled and shook his head, "You always performed me at the last minute, did you forget?"



At that instant, he blinked and lifted his head from Sajdah. He was in a sweat. He listened to the voices coming from outside. He heard the adhan for Salat-ul Isha. He got up quickly and went to perform Wudhu.

Teguran Buat Sahabat2ku...

Dari Abu Hurairah, Rasulullah bersabda,

Dua golongan dari ahli neraka yg tidka pernah aku lihat: seorang yg membawa cemeti seperti seekor sapi yang dia memukul orang2, dan perempuan yg berpakaian tetapi telanjang, berlenggok-lenggok, kepalanya bagaikan punok unta yg bergoyang. Mereka tidak akan masuk syurga dan tidak akan mendapatkan baunya, sekalipun ia bisa didapatkan sejak perjalanan sekian dan sekian. (HR Muslim)

Apakah makna sabda Nabi SAW, "Berpakaian tapi telanjang?"

Adapun makna sabda Nabi SAW, "Berpakaian tapi telanjang," yakni wanita-wanita tersebut memakai pakaian, akan tetapi pakaian mereka tidak tertutup rapat (menutup seluruh tubuhnya atau auratnya).

Para ulama berpendapat bahwa di antara yang termasuk berpakaian tapi telanjang, yaitu pakaian tipis, sehingga terlihat kulit yang terbungkus di belakangnya, sehingga secara lahiriyah pemakainya terlihat berpakaian, tetapi pada hakikatnya telanjang. Juga termasuk pakaian transparan, yaitu pakaian yang tebal, tetapi pendek (mini), pakaian yang ketat sehingga menempel pada kulit dan memperlihatkan lekuk tubuh pemakainya, sehingga seakan-akan tidak berpakaian. Semua pakaian tersebut termasuk jenis pakaian telanjang. Makna tersebut, jika yang dimaksud adalah pakaian transparan dalam pengertian inderawi.

Sedangkan jika yang dimaksud adalah pakaian transparan dalam pengertian maknawi, maka yang dimaksud dengan pakai-an adalah memelihara kesucian diri dan rasa malu. Kemudian yang dimaksud dengan telanjang adalah menganggap sepele perbuatan dosa dan memperlihatkan aib kepada orang lain. Dengan demikian dilihat dari satu sisi wanita-wanita tersebut berpakaian, tetapi dilihat dari sisi lain mereka telanjang.

Aku sebenarnya bukan ape.. just nak menegur je.. Tak tau la nak cakap macam mane.. Ramai pompuan anggap dengan pakai seluar panjang, pakai baju lengan panjang, n tudung, itu dah dikire tutup aurat. 

Yang aurat tu bukannye kulit je. Tapi tubuh badan.. Suke sangat nak pakai ketat2 tu pasal ape? Suke sangat nk menayang bentuk badan yg cantik sangat tu kenape? Kalau dah tau badan tu cantik sangat, perlu ke ditunjuk kat orang ramai? Banyak je pompuan yg badan cantik tapi pakai jubah, tudung labuh. Xde pulak diorg rugi pape pun.. Bukan xde laki yg minat kat diorg walaupun diorang pakai macam tu. Laki yg minat kat diorang tu pun bukannye budak2 biasa. Yang dari jenis lelaki baik gak... Lagi untung aku rasa.

Xpun pakai baju pendek. Aku tak paham la.. Bende ni berlaku kat family aku jugak... Kakak2 aku, anak sedara aku.. Hurm... susah. Sape la aku nak tegur diorang. 

Aku tak kisah pun pompuan2 kat luar tu nak pakai ape. Tapi aku kisah kalau orang tu ialah org yang dekat dengan aku. Kawan2 aku, keluarga aku.. 

Tak tau la.. Aku tak berani nak tegur secara direct. Sape la aku kalau nak tegur. Nik pun tak tegur, xkan aku nak sibuk2. Aku nobody. Aku xjoin usrah. Aku xpakai tudung bulat. Aku tak pakai jubah. Aku pun pakai jeans jugak. Aku dengar lagu rock kapak. Aku tengok cerite barat. huhuhu...

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